Psalms have been part of Jewish ritual and liturgy for centuries, expressing praise to God, feelings of sorrow and longing, and much more. Rabbi Jade Sank Ross’s To You I Call is an invitation to make the ancient words of psalms part of our daily lives. The book pairs seventy-two psalms with a range of life moments, from giving birth to retirement to experiencing antisemitism—times of grief and gratitude, anticipation and despair, pain and relief. Rabbi Sank Ross’s original, authentic framing and Rabbi Richard N. Levy’s beautiful, contemporary translations let readers forge a deep and personal connection with the words of the Psalmist. With sensitivity and vulnerability, To You I Call brings the psalms to life for our lives, today.
Foreword Rabbi Elyse D. Frishman Acknowledgments Introduction Psalms for Anticipation Making Life-Changing Decisions: Psalm 1 Before Major Transitions: Psalm 118 While Waiting for Important News: Psalm 9 Taking or Receiving Results of a Major Exam: Psalm 46 Before Entering Stressful Situations: Psalm 59 Before Marching for Social Change: Psalm 50 Before an Election: Psalm 111 When Caregiving: Psalm 55 Before or After Surgery: Psalm 20 Beginning Hospice Care: Psalm 73 Going to the Mikveh: Psalm 77 Before Traveling: Psalm 138 A Long-Anticipated Meeting: Psalm 133 Praying for the Growth of an Embryo: Psalm 37 Beginning a Process of Expanding One’s Family: Psalm 144 Psalms for Commemoration Shivah—The Week After Losing a Beloved: Psalm 3 Sh’loshim—The Month After Losing a Beloved: Psalm 13 At the Grave of a Beloved: Psalm 91 Unveiling: Psalm 104 Yahrzeit—A Year After Losing a Beloved: Psalm 121 Remembering a Life-Changing Loss: Psalm 131 Remembering a Traumatic Event: Psalm 137 Choosing to End a Pregnancy: Psalm 27 Anniversaries: Psalm 117 Marking Time Since or Leading to Moving: Psalm 105 Psalms for Despair Accepting Death: Psalm 63 The Day After Losing a Beloved: Psalm 23 Experiencing a Significant Loss for the First Time: Psalm 61 Mourning Multiple Losses: Psalm 62 When We Fail: Psalm 130 When Leaving, Separating, or Divorcing: Psalm 103 After Losing a Wanted Pregnancy: Psalm 31 Experiencing Infertility: Psalm 34 Psalms for Gratitude Birthdays: Psalm 119 Graduations: Psalm 113 Professional Achievements: Psalm 128 Retirement: Psalm 112 Moving into a New Home or Making Changes to a Home: Psalm 122 Marriage: Psalm 100 Pregnancy: Psalm 139 80 After Giving Birth: Psalm 115 At a Naming Ceremony: Psalm 8 When a Child Reaches a Milestone of Adulthood: Psalm 84 Looking Back on a Life-Changing Moment: Psalm 5 Making It Safely out of a Precarious Situation: Psalm 28 Reuniting After a Long Separation: Psalm 147 After Studying a Jewish Text: Psalm 78 Traveling to Israel: Psalm 126 Psalms for Pain From Health to Illness: Psalm 6 Loss of an Ability: Psalm 90 Calling Out for Healing: Psalm 40 Experiencing a Climate Disaster: Psalm 29 Experiencing Antisemitism, Racism, Discrimination, or Hate: Psalm 39 Experiencing Political Violence: Psalm 74 In Times of Abuse: Psalm 18 In Times of Pain: Psalm 41 In Times of Loneliness: Psalm 88 In Times of War or Conflict: Psalm 140 After an Argument: Psalm 143 Psalms for Relief From Illness to Health: Psalm 16 Surviving an Accident: Psalm 92 For Sobriety or Changing a Habit: Psalm 33 After Coming Out/Inviting In: Psalm 94 Living into Our Identities: Psalm 4 Holding a Child for the First Time: Psalm 45 Feeding a Child: Psalm 136 Experiencing Success After Hard Work: Psalm 67 Accepting a New Job: Psalm 72 Paying Off a Debt: Psalm 66 After Planning a Major Event: Psalm 48 Moments of Respite: Psalm 19 Before Going on Vacation: Psalm 24 Index of Psalms About the Author
Rabbi Jade Sank Ross grew up in Kinnelon, New Jersey, where she spent the majority of her days divided between the local stables riding horses and her Jewish home, Barnert Temple, in Franklin Lakes, New Jersey. It was because of her involvement at Barnert Temple and because of the mentorship of Rabbi Elyse Frishman, Cantor Regina Lambert-Hayut, and Director of Lifelong Learning Sara Losch that Rabbi Sank Ross discovered her calling as a rabbi.
Rabbi Sank Ross received her BA in anthropology and international and global studies from Brandeis University, where she was also a member of the a cappella group Company B. She was ordained as a rabbi in 2018 by the Hebrew Union College–Jewish Institute of Religion in New York, where she earned awards for her achievements in homiletics and human relations.
Having previously served under her mentor Rabbi Howard Goldsmith as the assistant rabbi and director of education at Congregation Emanu-El of Westchester in Rye, New York, Rabbi Sank Ross currently serves The Community Synagogue in Port Washington, New York.
Rabbi Sank Ross is passionate about cooking and baking. This passion, combined with her love of Jewish learning and community, has led her to contribute to three Jewish Food Hero cookbooks by Kenden Alfond.
Rabbi Sank Ross is married to Rabbi Daniel Ross, and together they are most proud to be Adina and Bella’s parents.
In this beautiful collection, Rabbi Jade Sank Ross makes the ancient words of the Psalmist accessible for the times when words fail us—in our extreme despair or joy, pain or gratitude. Her wise, thoughtful suggestions of psalms for life moments remind us that we are not alone, and invite us to glimpse God’s hand in our journey. —Rabbi Angela Warnick Buchdahl, Senior Rabbi, Central Synagogue, NYC
The wisdom of our tradition is timeless, yet too often it is tucked away in a forgotten verse in the corner of the beit midrash (study hall). Rabbi Sank Ross has captured the brilliance and relevance of so many of our teachings, lifting them off the page for us to embrace for any situation we may encounter in our lives. —Rabbi Josh Warshawsky, composer and rabbi of Congregation Agudas Achim, Columbus, OH
Rabbi Jade Sank Ross has imagined a world in which the wisdom of the Book of Psalms permeates the ups and downs of our real lives. Through her pastoral sensitivity and creative readings, Rabbi Sank Ross powerfully brings these ancient words to life, inviting us to recite them with true connection and devotion. —Rabbi Elie Kaunfer, CEO of the Hadar Institute
Weary from wars, uncertainty, and fear, Rabbi Sank Ross invites us to pause. Take another look at our ancient texts, the psalms—you will be surprised and strengthened by what you see and feel. Rabbi Sank Ross offers words of hope and wisdom for every need and occasion. Don’t miss this book. —Janet Walton, SNJM, Professor Emerita of Worship, Union Theological Seminary