Prayer is an articulation of our noblest desires, our deepest yearnings, and our darkest places. The prayers in this collection speak directly to the complexity of human life--whether you seek expression for joy, wonder, perplexity, or heartache, for personal use or for your community, you will find here a voice for your experience that will help you linger in the blessings and move forward through the pain. This collection includes prayers for personal use, prayers for use at communal gatherings, prayers and readings for moments of grief and moments of joy, a collection of daily Psalms, and focus phrases and questions for meditation. These readings for contemplative practice and communal gatherings will aid in the search for clarity, for strength beyond what we know, and for an affirmation of holiness, of goodness, of the grandeur of God.
vii Acknowledgments xv Introduction
Section I: Awakening the Spiritual Path 3 Bearing Witness 4 Beholden 5 Tumble Prayer 6 Only This 7 God of Mercy 8 All Is Possible 9 I Wake Before the Dawn 10 Call Upon Me 11 Waiting 12 Resilience 13 The Archaeologist of the Soul 15 Whispers 16 At Some Point We Wake 17 Humility 18 Lift Me: A Morning Song 19 Quiet My Soul, O Holy One 20 Trust 21 Meaning 22 Learning 23 Decide 24 Always Mortal 26 Fear and Hope 27 Presence 28 Supplication 30 Repentance 31 The Creative Spirit 32 Learning to Yield 34 Stretch Out Your Light 35 Loss Is a Cleansing 36 Love 37 Turn to the Light 38 Resolve 39 To the God of Enigma 41 Light and Dust 42 Choosing 43 Atonement 45 Hope Is the Bridge 46 Hold Me in Prayer 47 The Ghost of Love 48 Overflow: The Prayer of the Well Digger 50 Guide Me 51 Hide and Seek 52 Return 53 Abundance 54 My Rock 55 Give Away the Pain 56 Perpetual Crossings 57 A Simple Awareness 58 Doubt 59 Courage 60 Build a Vessel of Compassion 61 God of All Things 62 Life Defined 63 Open My Eyes 64 Discern 65 To the Morning God 66 Forgiveness 67 A More Gentle Voice 69 The Truth 70 Hope, Banish My Despair 71 A Nighttime Prayer 73 Presence 74 To the God of Another Day: A Song 75 Linger 76 Wonder 77 In Between 79 To the Uplifting God: Help Me 81 Ordinary Splendor 82 Amen 83 Imagination 84 Make of Me a Vessel 86 To the God of Simple Elegance: Hallelujah 87 Gratitude 88 Release Me 89 Joy
Section II: God’s Tears Grief and Mourning 95 Dying: To the God, Who Teaches 97 Esa Einai: I Lift My Eyes 99 Learning from Death 100 From a Mother to Her Girls 102 For My Father 104 To the God of Mystery 105 Kaddish: You Ask So Much 106 Yizkor: Remember 108 The Valley Acts of Violence, War, and Natural Disaster 111 For Courage and Comfort 113 To the God of Doubt 114 A Prayer of Courage and Consolation 115 For the Children 116 Restore What Is Broken 117 For Suffering 118 To the God of Creation Prayers of Peace and Memorial 121 Light and Warmth 122 A Prayer for Nonviolence 123 Blessing for the Soldiers 124 In Time of War in Israel: A Prayer for Courage 125 For Those Who Serve and Defend: We Remember 126 Israel Memorial Day
Section III: Our Common Purpose: Prayers for Community and Assembly 129 The Call to Service 130 The Covenant of Leadership 131 The Leadership Pledge 132 A Blessing for Our Community 133 For the Women of the Wall: Hear Our Prayer 135 A Prayer for an Assembly 136 A Prayer for a Community Gathering 137 A Prayer for Justice and Democracy 138 A Convocation for an Interfaith Gathering
Section IV: The Psalm of the Day 141 Sunday: Psalm 24 To God of the Heights: Lift Me 142 Monday: Psalm 48 To the God of War and Peace: Prevail 143 Tuesday: Psalm 82 To the Judge of All the Earth: Advocate 144 Wednesday: Psalm 94 To the God of Peace: Save Us 145 Thursday: Psalm 81 To the God of Creation: A Song of Thanks 146 Friday: Psalm 93 To the Center of the Universe: A Yielding 148 The Sabbath: Psalm 92 A Song of Gratitude: Open My Heart
Section V: Focus Phrases 155 Finding Meaning and Purpose 159 Guidance 163 Self-Love 167 Forgiveness 171 Positive Energy 175 Courage Section
VI: Questions 183 Faith 184 Courage 185 Wisdom
187 Notes
Rabbi Karyn D. Kedar is an author, poet, spiritual counselor, inspirational speaker and rabbi emerita at Congregation B'nai Jehoshua Beth Elohim in Deerfield, Illinois. She was ordained at Hebrew Union College–Jewish Institute of Religion in Cincinnati in 1985. She is the author of several books, among them Omer: A Counting (2014), Amen: Seeking Presence with Prayer, Poetry, and Mindfulness Practice (2019), and Unfolding: A High Holy Day Companion(2025) from CCAR Press. She is also published in numerous anthologies and has created liturgy, rituals, and ceremonies.
Rabbi Kedar teaches courses and designs retreats on finding meaning and purpose in our busy lives, creating a prayerful and intentional life, spiritual awakening, forgiveness, and intentional leadership. She offers workshops in engagement, vision, and creating the synagogue for the twenty-first century.
She and her husband Ezra are the proud parents of Talia, Moti, Shiri and Ilan and grandparents of Lihi, Maya, Eliyah, Emma, Leo, and Nelly all who live in Israel.
"A groundbreaking rabbi and author, Karyn Kedar has plumbed her soul to nurture the souls of those she serves. This latest offering of prayers, so deeply personal that they can be prayed by anyone, is an offering of love. It is grounded in love, gratitude, and forgiveness. It is inspired by turning mindful attention to what is true in each moment, an exercise that reveals "that I am not alone. / And the only thing I must do/is not deny, or ignore, but rather, / implore, / God, / help me live in the sweep of great/ love." - Rabbi Jonathan P. Slater, Senior Program Director, Institute for Jewish Spirituality
"Poetry and prayer to touch the soul by a rabbi who thinks deeply, cares passionately, and writes beautifully. "A gentle yet steady embrace of the mystery" we call life, the author says of her book. To which I gratefully respond Amen." - Rabbi Dr. Lawrence Hoffman, PhD, The Barbara and Stephen Friedman Professor Emeritus of Liturgy, Worship, and Ritual
"Karyn Kedar records the contours of a soul's human journey with the gifts of a poet, a mystic, and a leader whose kind curiosity and courage permeate each page. This collection of personal prayers and reflections offers depth and inspiration that open the heart to gaze upon the soul, God, and this human life in times of solitude and in community. Kedar's Amen is itself a sustained prayer, subtle and bold, nuanced and naked at once. I find myself saying "Amen!" to this potent, provocative, and tender invitation into a prayerful orientation towards life, death, and the Mystery of Presence that pervades it all." - Rabbi Myriam Klotz, Director, Bekhol Levavkha Jewish Spiritual Director, Training and Spiritual Direction Programs, HUC-JIR
"Kedar illuminates grief and loss as teachers for the soul. ...Amen will be a wonderful resource for retreats, in spiritual direction, peer supervision groups, fellowships and group spiritual direction, or individual personal reflection." - Presence: An International Journal of Spiritual Direction
"This book is a cornucopia of prayer, poetry, and practices. Your eyes will see more beauty, your heart will become wiser and more loving, your spirit lifted and comforted as you sit with this remarkable collection. Seekers, pastoral caregivers, meditators, spiritual directors, leaders, and teachers will refer to it often!" - Barbara Breitman, author of Jewish Spiritual Direction